Regardless of how you — or your manager
— feel about this new process, you’re both expected to comply. So crawl out
from under your desk and get underneath your fear. Better start identifying
your assumptions and planning a strategy:
· My
manager’s not open to my feedback. It’s hard to know
if your input is welcome, since the directive came from HR and not the manager
himself. Ideally, your manager would initiate the request and create an
environment of safety for your discussion. Absent his doing so, it’s up to you
to determine his receptiveness. Ask your manager how he’d prefer to receive
your comments. If you sense disengagement, peppering him with constructive
feedback will fall on deaf ears or may even be turned against you. Better to
play it safe and stick with positive statements. If your manager genuinely
supports the process, ask him where he’d like you to focus your feedback —
ü Is
there an area of development he’s working to improve?
ü Was
there a past project he was involved in that could benefit from your input?
Knowing
specifically what type of feedback your boss is looking for will help you frame
your response in a way that resonates well when delivered.
·
It’s
not my role to coach my manager. True, your manager’s
boss is primarily responsible for her development. But for organizations using
a 360-degree feedback process, gaining a full spectrum of performance insight typically
includes direct reports. So now that you’re involved, be sure you understand how
the process works:
ü Will
you be asked to complete a manager assessment form?
ü Will
your responses be open or confidential?
ü Will
the feedback be delivered at a skip level or directly to your manager?
ü Should
you expect to have a face-to-face meeting with your manager to present or
review your feedback?
Once
you have a handle on the process, follow it:
ü Answer
questions honestly and professionally.
ü Focus
responses on your own perceptions and avoid acting as a spokesperson for
others.
ü Use
specific examples of performance.
ü Provide
recommendations for improvement if requested, but avoid telling your boss how
to do her job.
Your
feedback, when combined with others, will help your manager to develop and
improve her leadership skills, which ultimately benefits you.
·
Why
does my feedback matter, anyway? In short, because it’s in your best interest
to tell your manager how you want to “be managed.” Your manager plays a central
role in the company’s performance management process. Beyond just reviewing the
performance of his direct reports, he’s also expected to understand the unique motivational
triggers of everyone on his team:
ü What
do employees expect from him as a manager?
ü How
does each employee prefer to receive coaching and direction?
ü How
much oversight does the employee need and how can they best be challenged?
By
collaboratively participating in an exchange of feedback, you’re improving your
chances for a successful and supportive working relationship between you and
your manager.
As with any new process, start by getting
answers to your questions and understanding the process. You’ll alleviate your fears
and be in a better position to focus on feedback that benefits your manager and,
ultimately, you.






